Learning Map
Personal & Social DevelopmentFriendship & Cooperationusually ages 9–11

Assertive Communication

Use assertive communication — expressing needs, opinions, and boundaries clearly and respectfully without being aggressive (pushy/demanding) or passive (giving in/staying silent) — including saying no when something doesn't feel right

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If friends want your child to do something they're uncomfortable with — like excluding another child or breaking a rule — can your child say 'I don't want to do that' firmly but politely?

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Builds on
Communication Vocabularyages 7–11Assertive communication requires understanding the trio: assertive vs passive vs aggressive
Resolving Disagreements with Friendsages 7–9Assertive communication builds on basic conflict resolution
Positive Self-Talkages 7–9Assertive communication benefits from positive self-talk skills
Assertive Communicationthis skill · ages 9–11
Unlocks
Self-Reflection in Relationshipsages 9–11Reflecting on social patterns builds on assertive communication skills
Social Cues and Group Dynamicsages 11–12Advanced friendship skills depends on earlier cooperation concepts
Giving and Receiving Feedbackages 9–11Giving feedback benefits from assertive communication
Peer Pressure and Resisting Itages 9–11Resisting peer pressure benefits from assertive communication skills

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Curriculum alignment

Candidate matches to official curriculum codes — machine-suggested, unreviewed (v0.1).

Show candidate curriculum codes · 1 ACARA · 1 NSW · 2 VIC

Australian Curriculum v9 candidate

AC9HP6P07low confidenceYear 5–6 · Personal, social and community health

describe strategies for seeking, giving or denying consent and rehearse how to communicate their intentions effectively and respectfully

NSW syllabus codes & stages only

PH2-RRS-01low confidencePDHPE K-6 · Stage 2

Victorian Curriculum 2.0 codes & levels only

VC2HP6P07medium confidenceHealth and Physical Education · Levels 5 and 6 · Personal, Social and Community Health – Health Education strand
VC2HP6P08low confidenceHealth and Physical Education · Levels 5 and 6 · Personal, Social and Community Health – Health Education strand

These are candidate alignments generated by semantic matching — machine-suggested and unreviewed (v0.1), not official or verified mappings. For official curriculum content see australiancurriculum.edu.au, curriculum.nsw.edu.au and f10.vcaa.vic.edu.au. Don’t rely on them for registration or compliance purposes.

Nearby on the map

Giving and Receiving Feedbackages 9–11 Helping Others Resolve Conflictsages 9–11 Self-Reflection in Relationshipsages 9–11 Communication Vocabularyages 7–11

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